Guides

Written for the family on the outside. Plain words, no judgement.

Court, remand and sentencing

Someone on remand

What remand means, the extra things they are allowed, and how long it lasts.

What happens at court

From charge to sentence, and all the jargon, in plain English.

Expecting prison? Get ready

What to take to court, and how to sort the house, money, kids and pets first.

Solicitors, legal aid and appeals

The right kind of solicitor, whether legal aid pays, and the appeal deadline.

It just happened

The first 48 hours

What happens after court, why they have not rung, and what to do today.

Which prison are they in?

How to find someone for free, and what to do after a sudden move.

Staying in touch

Cheaper prison calls

Apps, call services and landlines compared honestly. Same calls, half the price.

Why is my number not approved?

How phone approval works, what goes wrong, and how to unstick it.

What you can send in

Letters, photos, clothes and books. What works and what gets sent back.

Children and prison

Telling the kids, the school, visits, and the people who help.

Stopping unwanted contact

How to stop contact, and no-contact rules when you are the victim.

While they are inside

Worried about their mental health

Safer Custody, ACCT, stopped medication, and looking after yourself too.

Recall explained

Sent back to prison from licence. The 56 day rule and what happens next.

Getting out and after

The 2026 sentencing changes

Will they get out earlier? What is changing, and what has not started yet.

Where will they live on release?

Approved premises, bail hostels and CAS explained, and homelessness help.

Where the rules differ

Scotland and Northern Ireland

The rules differ in each nation. What changes, and the official sources.

Still to come: family tips for each prison, added from real experience.